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Suicidal ideation and suicide in MS

Mental health problems and suicide are the underbelly of MS, the elephant in the consulting room. I have attempted to discuss these topics in a way that is not too dark, based on data from a 2026 systematic review. Please be aware, however, that the content may still be upsetting.

Key points

  • The suicide rate among people with MS is roughly twice that of the general population.
  • Several biological, psychological and social factors contribute to suicide risk:
    • depression and anxiety: a biological basis for these comorbidities exists in MS
    • MS disease-related factors: increased disability, disease duration and progression; life-changing symptoms
    • socio-demographic factors: age, male sex, living alone, education level
    • social and existential factors: loneliness, social exclusion and low perceived social support; loss of purpose and meaning; financial strain; fear of stigma.
  • Thoughts of ending one’s life – ‘suicidal ideation’ – precede suicide attempts; effective screening tools exist, are quick to complete and can identify patients at risk of suicide.
  • Systematic screening is not optional but should be part of the basic standard of care.
  • Suicide prevention in MS requires participation by the clinic, the patient (and their family) and the health system.
  • If you or someone you know is having thoughts of suicide, please reach out for help. Support groups are available.

The problem we avoid talking about …

MS is a chronic, unpredictable and often disabling neurological condition. People with MS know this, and as a result they carry a psychological burden that is usually overlooked in a 15-minute annual outpatient appointment. Mental health problems and suicide are the elephant in the MS consulting room. They sit quietly alongside the disability progression conversation, the drug treatment switch discussion, and the “How are things at home?” question that healthcare professionals (HCPs) often forget to ask.

How common are suicidal ideation and suicide in MS?

Suicidal ideation – thoughts of ending one’s life, with or without a plan – is the single most important precursor to suicide attempts, and death by suicide among people with MS is far more common than most HCPs appreciate. A landmark Canadian study in 1991 found that suicide was the third most common cause of death reported in MS clinics.1 The proportion of deaths due to suicide among people with MS (15%) was 7.5 times the proportion in an age-matched general population (2%).

More recent work suggests that the suicide rate among people with MS is roughly twice that of the general population.2 A 2026 systematic review and meta-analysis of suicidal ideation in MS draws on 18 studies and more than 8,000 people with MS to provide a picture of how common it is, what drives it and where the gaps are in MS care.2 From these combined data, the authors estimate that one in five people (20%) in an MS clinic waiting room has considered suicide. This is higher than the 13% figure from a 2020 meta-analysis,3 and the authors suggest two plausible explanations:

  • an expanding evidence base that now includes more diverse settings
  • a real rise in suicidal ideation rates – perhaps linked to the COVID-19 pandemic, growing geopolitical instability and reduced stigma around reporting mental health symptoms.

Individual study prevalence ranged dramatically, from 8% in a Canadian cohort to 36% in an Iranian cohort. This is probably telling us something important about how context, culture, income level and healthcare infrastructure shape suicide risk.

In most high-income countries, lifetime suicidal ideation prevalence in the general population is around 9–10%. The recent 20% figure in people with MS2 is therefore roughly double that seen in the background population – a finding echoed by many independent studies.

Regional and temporal patterns

In the 2026 review, subgroup analysis based on country income level reported a pooled suicidal ideation prevalence of 17% among the 14 high-income countries compared with 32% in the countries with ‘upper-middle’ incomes (three studies from Iran and one from Brazil).2 This aligns with what we know about mental health inequities more broadly – poverty, housing insecurity, financial strain, limited access to psychiatric services, and stigma all worsen outcomes in lower-resource settings. (Please note, the ‘upper-middle income’ data in this review came from just two countries; therefore, we should be cautious about extrapolating to sub-Saharan Africa, South Asia or Latin America as a whole.)

Suicidal ideation prevalence figures published between 19911 and 20262 from many studies conducted across different regions of the world vary widely and may appear inconsistent. The 2026 figure of 20% still means, however, that roughly one in five people with MS has active suicidal thoughts, and global crises in the last five years may be masking an underlying deterioration that will only become visible in the next generation of studies.

Limitations of study data

The 2026 review has limitations that need to be acknowledged. Study methodologies vary widely: suicidal ideation is measured with different instruments and at different time points; diagnostic criteria for MS are inconsistently reported; variability between studies is high. The ‘20% prevalence’ figure from 2026 is therefore an estimate with uncertainty. What is not uncertain is that suicidal ideation is substantially more common in MS than in the general population, and that it is driven by modifiable factors and hence is preventable. 

Who is at risk of suicidal ideation among people with MS

No single risk factor predicts suicidal ideation in isolation. Suicide is the final common pathway of several biological, psychological and social factors. Consistent drivers can be grouped into four domains.2

1. Psychiatric comorbidity: depression and anxiety

Depression and anxiety are the most consistently reported risk factors for suicidal ideation in MS.2 Depression affects up to 50% of people with MS at some point, far exceeding the 14–21% figure in the general population. This matters because depression in MS is both more common and more severe than in the general population, and it is driven by a mixture of:

  • neuroinflammation and hormonal factors (depression in MS is not simply a ‘reaction’ to having MS – it has a biological basis)
  • lesion location, particularly in limbic and frontal lobe/cortex pathways
  • disease-modifying therapy (DMT) side effects (particularly with interferon therapy)
  • the psychological burden of uncertainty, disability and loss of role.

Anxiety, which is often under-recognised and under-treated in MS, frequently coexists with depression and independently elevates suicidal ideation risk.

2. Disease-related factors

Several disease features align with suicidal ideation across studies.

  • Greater disability – measured both by clinician-rated EDSS (Expanded Disability Status Scale) scores and by self-reported physical impairment. The latter may be a stronger predictor than EDSS scores, because it captures the subjective experience of living with impairment.
  • Longer disease duration – though this relationship is complex. Study results vary, suggesting that some patients adapt psychologically over time, probably depending how well they adjust to living with MS.
  • Progressive MS – higher suicidal ideation rates are found in people with more advanced MS when compared with the earlier relapsing–remitting phase. Many HCPs and healthcare systems think that once someone with MS becomes disabled, the disease is not modifiable. I hope landmark studies like ocrelizumab in PPMS (O’HAND study), siponimod in SPMS (EXPAND study) and tolebrutinib in non-relapsing SPMS (HERCULES study) change this perspective. 
  • Specific symptoms – fatigue, sleep disturbance, spasms, bladder and bowel difficulties, and speech and swallowing problems also correlate with suicidal ideation. Together, these symptoms erode quality of life.

3. Sociodemographic factors

The evidence here is more mixed.

  • Age – findings are inconsistent. Some studies identify older patients (≥ 65 years) as higher risk; others find younger people with MS more vulnerable. Both extremes carry risk for different reasons; younger recently diagnosed patients face a challenge to their identity and loss of envisioned future; older patients face accumulated disability and social isolation.
  • Male sex – some (but not all) studies find men at higher risk, consistent with general population data on completed suicide.
  • Unmarried status and living alone are both associated with increased suicidal ideation in multiple studies.
  • Education level – most studies suggest that higher educational attainment is protective (better health literacy, coping strategies, economic resources); one Iranian study found the opposite, perhaps reflecting unmet expectations or awareness of prognosis.

4. Social and existential factors

This domain is the easiest to miss in a busy MS clinic but most important to address.

  • Low perceived social support, from family, friends and significant others, is a consistent risk factor.
  • Loneliness and social exclusion – ‘feeling socially excluded’ strongly correlates with suicidal ideation.
  • Hopelessness and loss of purpose – perceived loss of control, loss of masculinity/femininity and failure to achieve an expected role contribute psychologically to suicidal ideation.
  • Challenges to faith or spiritual meaning – having a sense of purpose, comfort in faith, and church membership can all be helpful and protective (in those for whom they are important).  
  • Financial strain and anticipated stigma are particularly important in lower-resource settings.

Screening for suicidal ideation in the clinic

If 20% of people with MS experience suicidal ideation but only a small fraction volunteer it spontaneously, systematic screening is not optional but should be part of the basic standard of care. Effective screening tools exist, and they are quick to complete.

The Patient Health Questionnaire-9 (PHQ-9)

The PHQ-9 is the most practical and widely validated mental health tool for neurological conditions, including MS; it is particularly suited to detecting suicidal ideation. Item 9 of this 9-item self-report depression screen specifically asks about thoughts of self-harm or being better off dead. It takes under 3 minutes to complete and can be done in the waiting room or electronically before the clinic. Scores above 10 indicate clinically significant depression warranting action. A positive response to item 9 should trigger a suicide risk assessment. It could be argued that every MS clinic should administer the PHQ-9 at least annually, and at every unscheduled visit where there has been a relapse, a significant disability progression, a DMT change or a major life event.

The Beck Scale for Suicide Ideation (BSI)

The BSI is a 20-item instrument designed specifically for suicide risk. It is more detailed than the PHQ-9 and is better suited to psychiatric follow-up than to first-line screening.

The Beck Depression Inventory-II (BDI-II)

The BDI-II is a broader 21-item depression measure that includes a suicide item. This is often used in research settings but takes longer to complete than the PHQ-9 in a clinic.

The Hospital Anxiety and Depression Scale (HADS)

The HADS is my favoured option that captures both anxiety and depression domains. It does not, however, include a direct suicide item, so a ‘positive’ (i.e. high: 11−21) HADS score should always prompt a follow-up suicide-specific question.

What should you be asked if a screen is positive?

Clinicians often feel awkward asking directly about suicide. Evidence is unambiguous that asking about suicide does not increase the risk. A graded approach works well:

  1. ‘Have you had thoughts that life isn’t worth living, or that you’d be better off dead?’
  2. ‘Have you had thoughts of harming yourself?’
  3. ‘Have you thought about how you might do it?’ (plan)
  4. ‘Do you have access to the means?’ (access)
  5. ‘Have you taken any steps or made any preparations?’ (intent)

Presence of a plan, access to means, or preparatory behaviour indicates a high imminent risk and demands urgent psychiatric referral – ideally, the same day.

Suicide prevention: what can we do?

Suicide prevention in MS operates at three levels: the clinic, the patient and the system.

At the clinical level

  • Screen systematically. A good MS service should embed PHQ-9 into routine MS review and not rely on patients volunteering suicidal ideation. If I were setting up an MS clinic now, I would include PHQ-9 in routine screening and add it to the annual questionnaire that patients must complete before each clinic visit. 
  • Treat depression and anxiety aggressively. Depression and anxiety are the dominant modifiable risk factors. Selective serotonin reuptake inhibitors (SSRIs: sertraline, citalopram, escitalopram) are first-line, well-tolerated drugs and have no meaningful interaction with current DMTs. Cognitive behavioural therapy (CBT) – including web-based models – has a good evidence base in MS. We should reject the dogma that ‘of course they’re depressed, they have MS’ as a reason not to proactively manage depression.
  • Address symptom burden. Fatigue, pain, sleep disturbance, bladder dysfunction and spasticity are not just quality-of-life issues – they are suicide risk factors that need to be treated. Please make sure that your MS care team provides relevant support. 
  • Be alert at transition points. Diagnosis, relapse, disability milestones (losing the ability to walk, work or drive), DMT failure, and being labelled as having secondary progressive MS are all periods of elevated risk. 
  • Assess social support explicitly. Who do you live with? Who helps you? Who would you call at 3 am? Treat loneliness and social isolation as vital potential danger signs.
  • Restrict means where appropriate. Safe storage of medications, particularly in patients with large quantities of prescribed opioids, benzodiazepines or anticholinergics, can save lives. This conversation needs to be had with the patient, their partner and their family. 
  • Document and communicate risk. A named crisis contact, a safety plan, and timely communication with the GP or primary care physician should be standard practice.

At the patient and family level

  • Psychoeducation. Many people with MS don’t know that depression is a common and treatable part of MS – they assume sadness and hopelessness are inevitable. Naming and confronting depression and suicidal ideation helps.
  • Normalise help-seeking. The stigma of psychiatric care in MS remains real. Framing mental health as part of MS care, not something separate, reduces that barrier.
  • Involve family. Family members are often the first to notice a change – withdrawal, giving away possessions, changes in sleep. They need to be taught about what to watch for.
  • Build purpose and connection. Peer support groups (e.g. MS Society, Shift.ms, MS Trust, MS International Federation resources, National MS Society [US]), vocational rehabilitation, social prescribing, church attendance, volunteering and hobbies all buffer against hopelessness. Having a purpose in life and being productive reduce the likelihood of suicidal ideation.
  • Safety planning. A written safety plan – warning signs, coping strategies, people to call, reasons for living, means restriction – is a simple but evidence-based self-administered intervention. The Stanley-Brown Safety Plan is freely available online.

At the system level

  • Integrate mental health into MS services. A neuropsychologist or clinical psychologist embedded in an MS service should not be a luxury; it is the minimum standard for a condition where one in two patients develops depression. That said, most NHS MS clinics don’t employ a neuropsychologist, and referring people with MS for assessment and management takes time.
  • Address inequity. The doubled suicidal ideation prevalence in upper-middle-income countries2 is not inevitable. It reflects under-resourced mental health services, stigma, and financial barriers to care – all modifiable at a policy level.
  • Research under-represented populations. The Bazmi review2 of 14 high-income and three upper-middle-income countries openly discusses its limitations: it includes no data from low-income countries and none from most of Asia, Africa or Latin America, beyond a single Brazilian study. MS care cannot be evidence-based at a global level if the evidence is dominated by findings from high-income countries. More research is needed. 

The bottom line

If you are an HCP and are reading this, please remember that roughly one in five of your MS patients has had thoughts of suicide. Most of them have not told you. The dominant drivers – depression, anxiety, disability, symptom burden, loneliness, hopelessness – are either treatable or modifiable, and the screening tools are simple, brief and validated. Although suicidal ideation is common in people with MS, it is driven by modifiable factors and hence is preventable. Suicide in MS is not inevitable. It is, however, easy to miss. Every person with MS deserves a clinician who asks directly, listens without flinching, and acts on what they hear.

If you or someone you know is having thoughts of suicide, please reach out for help.

In the UK, Samaritans are available 24/7 on 116 123.

In the US, the 988 Suicide and Crisis Lifeline is available by call or text.

In other countries, the International Association for Suicide Prevention (IASP) maintains a directory of crisis services at iasp.info/crisis-centres-helplines/

You are not alone, and help is available.

References

  1. Sadovnick AD, et al. Cause of death in patients attending multiple sclerosis clinics. Neurology 1991;41:1193. doi.org/10.1212/WNL.41.8.1193.
  2. Bazmi E, et al. Global prevalence and risk factors of suicidal ideation in multiple sclerosis: a systematic review and meta-analysis. Health Sci Rep 2026;9:e72331. doi: 10.1002/hsr2.72331.
  3. Kouchaki E, et al. Prevalence of suicidal ideation in multiple sclerosis patients: meta‐analysis of international studies. Soc Work Pub Health 2020;35:655–63.

What should I expect during the diagnostic consultation?

The practice of neurology and medicine varies worldwide, so I will explain what to expect if you were to consult me. 

Key points

  • The principles of diagnosing MS are to show the dissemination of lesions in space and time and to exclude alternative diagnoses that mimic MS.
  • Diagnosing MS takes time and should not be rushed; do not be afraid to ask questions.
  • Most patients diagnosed with MS have an emotional response similar to the five stages of grief – Denial, Anger, Bargaining, Depression and Acceptance (DABDA). Additionally, many patients experience Anxiety about the future (DABDA+A).
  • Newly diagnosed patients should avoid overloading themselves with information about MS; much of the online information can be misleading and anxiety-provoking. Guidance is provided below about reliable information sources.
  • Counselling, cognitive behavioural therapy and the support of an MS ‘buddy’ can help patients adjust to a diagnosis of MS, which is a serious condition and should be respected.
  • You should be aware that medical ‘gaslighting’ may happen and know how to deal with it.

Tests to exclude other diagnoses

MS is a clinical diagnosis and a diagnosis of exclusion. Therefore, I would take a detailed medical and neurological history and examine you for neurological signs. Finding signs of involvement in a particular neurological pathway is important for fulfilling the criteria for dissemination in space. MS must involve at least two neuronal pathways. To be confident that no alternative diagnosis could explain your presentation, a full work-up will likely include magnetic resonance imaging (MRI) of the brain and spinal cord, evoked potentials, a lumbar puncture and blood tests. In addition, I would need to show dissemination in time, involving two or more structures separated in time by at least 4 weeks.

The diagnosis of MS is not trivial and should not be rushed. If I doubted the diagnosis, I would wait. The old maxim ‘time is often the best diagnostician’ is as pertinent today as it was in the past. Despite this, the misdiagnosis rate remains stubbornly high. I recommend you read some of the posts that cover the diagnosis of MS in more detail, such as Am I sure that I have MS? and Do I have active MS?

Time to adjust to a diagnosis of MS

You should not expect too much from the initial consultation. The second consultation, once all the diagnostic tests are back, will be the difficult one. Before COVID-19, an MS diagnostic workup in the NHS would take about 6 ̶ 8 weeks. Due to COVID-19-related delays in getting MRI scans and evoked potentials, it currently takes up to 4 months. Occasionally, patients with possible MS are admitted to the hospital because of a disabling attack. This allows us to make a more rapid diagnosis. 

Being diagnosed with MS or any other chronic and potentially disabling disease is distressing. In my experience, patients’ responses are highly variable, including relief about finally getting a diagnosis, surprise, shock, anger or blaming the messenger for the bad news. Some question my judgement and refuse to accept the diagnosis; they may accuse me of being wrong and seek a second, third or fourth opinion. Many are devastated and expect the worst: how long before I need a wheelchair? Rarely patients are uninformed, have little or no idea about MS and ask about the disease. 

Examples of some responses to a diagnosis of MS

I always try and be reassuring and tell patients that MS is now a treatable disease. If we manage their MS actively, we can prevent or at least delay the development of disability for many decades.

Emotional response

I also warn patients about the emotional reaction they will likely have to being diagnosed with MS. The psychological impact of an MS diagnosis and the uncertainty associated with having a potentially disabling disease should never be underestimated. Elisabeth Kübler-Ross in 1969 described five common stages of grief, best known by the acronym DABDA:

Denial, Anger, Bargaining, Depression, Acceptance

We have added an extra A – for Anxiety about the future – to expand this to DABDA+A. People diagnosed with MS may go through these stages in order of the pneumonic, but some will jump around, and others go through some stages many times. Although the Kübler-Ross stages have been criticised in the psychological literature, they provide a valuable framework for discussing a patient’s emotional journey. Being diagnosed with MS is a marathon, not a sprint, and it will take time to come to terms with it.

It is important for healthcare professionals (HCPs) to be there for the journey and to make sure that newly diagnosed patients have access to their MS team and high-quality information about MS. 

Step-wise approach to understanding MS

In the modern era, most patients I diagnose as having MS are aware of the disease and suspect they have MS before I tell them so. I say this because Dr Google, Dr ChatGPT and Dr Bing are only keystrokes away, and their answers are very credible. 

Because of their anxiety, most newly diagnosed patients only take away one thing from the consultation: they have MS.  Almost everything else they hear is forgotten. I encourage patients to record the consultation or bring a partner, friend or family member who can be their backup memory. 

I try to avoid overloading patients with information early on. Instead, I provide links to online resources about having MS. We arrange a follow-up session with the MS nurse specialist in the next 10 ̶ 14 days so that they can ask questions.

Guidance about what information to trust

I counsel patients to stay away from Dr Google, Dr ChatGPT and Dr Bing until they have come to terms with having MS. Much of the MS-related content available on the web is misinformation and disinformation; until you understand the disease, it is difficult to know what information is valid, reliable and helpful and what is quackery. Many patients ignore this advice and overwhelm themselves with information, which can worsen anxiety. 

I don’t introduce recently diagnosed patients to MS-Selfie initially. MS-Selfie is written at too high a level for the average person who is newly diagnosed. If patients want more information, I direct them to the MS Trust, the MS Society and ‘MS Brain Health: time matters’ (for more detail, see Resources and hot topics).  

Counselling, support and respect

Depending on a patient’s response to the diagnosis, we may refer them for counselling, cognitive behavioural therapy and/or mindfulness therapy to help them come to terms with having MS and to help manage their anxiety. Most patients are receptive to these psychological therapies. 

Many people with MS are traumatised by their diagnostic consultation and may experience symptoms of post-traumatic stress disorder from the event. This should not happen in the modern era. In my experience, gestures such as having tissues on hand for a distressed patient or holding their hand are ways that HCPs can demonstrate their empathy.

On rare occasions, particularly for patients who are alone and socially isolated, we may buddy them up with another carefully chosen patient to ask questions and learn about MS. These MS buddies need to be optimistic, able to communicate well and not overwhelm the recently diagnosed patient with information. I work closely with the charity Shift.ms, which does a similar thing. 

In the diagnostic consultation, I avoid too much detail about treating MS and the specific DMTs. These are best discussed at the next visit. With some patients, however, the discussion gets to treatments very quickly. In such cases, I tailor the consultation to the individual’s needs. 

During the diagnostic consultation, I also show patients their MRI scans. Seeing your brain, spinal cord and MS lesions provides an objective way of helping you to visualise the disease. 

Recently diagnosed patients must be given time to ask questions and even to sit in silence. MS is a serious disease, and informing someone about the diagnosis must be done carefully. After more than 30 years as a neurologist, I still find telling my patients they have MS challenging. The patient being diagnosed with MS, as well as the disease, must be respected. 

What if a doctor belittles my concerns?

The term ‘medical gaslighting’ describes a scenario where health professionals dismiss or downplay a patient’s real symptoms, leading to an incorrect diagnosis. Now that we have recognised medical gaslighting as a significant problem in MS, please don’t allow a neurologist to gaslight you. There are things you can do to prevent this. 

  • Keep detailed notes and records. Patient-held notes transform consultations and allow you to become a partner in your healthcare.
  • Ask to record the consultation. Many HCPs don’t like this; just tell them you must listen to the conversation again to ensure you don’t forget things or miss important information. You will be surprised how this changes the HCP’s behaviour. 
  • Ask questions. Then ask some more. And don’t be fobbed off; if you are dissatisfied with the answer, ask the question again. 
  • Take someone with you for support. Having a witness during the consultation has a similar effect to recording the conversation or documenting it with notes. 
  • Focus on your most pressing issues to make the best use of your consultation time. If your HCP is pressed for time, say you understand, but you would like to prioritise the following issues today. This helps you to frame the limits of the consultation and promote a two-way discussion. Also, don’t expect the HCP to have all the answers at their fingertips, but do expect them to come back to you later with the answers.
  • Try and pin down the next steps for your problem; ask what the action points are. For example, if the MRI shows this, how will that change my management? Do I need further investigations? How soon should I switch treatments?

If you still feel that you are being ignored, here are some of your options.

Some courses of action open to you if you experience medical gaslighting.

Abuse, manipulation, gaslighting and delaying a diagnosis are potentially reportable events which HCPs need to know about. Therefore, make your healthcare system aware of the problem rather than suffer in silence.